Silence ….

Silence reveals the true pain….


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Broken Glass

As the Broken Glass screams the Wind laughs….


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Married Life DV….

This is oh so very true and it can be said you don’t know how damaged you are until someone loves you. 

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Monsters don’t sleep under your bed, they scream inside your head .

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I am Working Again DV

I went back to work almost a year ago when my daughter started Pre-school. I like working, just do not like where I work. C’est La Vie

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Food For Thought April 12, 2016

The truly scary thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a greater capacity to diminish us than exposed ones. They erode our strength, our self-esteem, our very foundation.



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Stay At Home MOM

I am a stay at home Mom and I am here to tell you this is a lot harder than it looks. I worked the first year of my daughters life and I found it a lot easier to go to work and either my husband or myself go and pick our daughter up from my mom or his. That’s right, our moms shared in taking care of our little one while we worked. We came to realization that our moms couldn’t watch her forever and that if I continued to work, she would have to go to daycare. We started doing the math, how much does it really cost for me to work? To make a long story short, when we added up the cost of daycare, both of our cars and eating out decided I should stay home. Um, yup I was not going to work outside the home and still come home to cook dinner. I never cooked before I had my daughter, I always ate out. I had a very stressful management position and I did well to get my butt to the gym after work, let alone cook.

stay-at-home-momFinally, I was able to quit my stressful job and leave that life behind. I will never miss the stress, unrealistic expectations, dealing with unmotivated employees and rude clients. As much as I don’t miss that job, there are times when I wished I worked or that I found work to be easier, or maybe I just think that because I am home all day. I love being a stay at home Mom, but I feel as if my workday never ends. My husband announces at 10:30 at night that he is going to bed and he goes straight to bed and within five minutes I can here his snoring. I can’t just go to bed right away. I have to make my “rounds,” doors/windows have to be checked and locked, toys put up, lunches made and place in the fridge, laundry, check on my daughter (pull the cover off her head), clean any dishes up (I have a thing about having a well sanitized kitchen and bath) and plenty other odds and ends. I lay my head on my pillow and usually have to get up once or twice because I forgot something. This is my new life and as tired and tedious as it is I always remind myself I am doing this for my family and not for other people.

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